Two years after c-section and\u00a0 I still had constant back pain<\/a>. This time, my lower back hurt every day, I was bloated all of the time, I had to pee all the time and my periods would sometimes last up to 14 days. I was depressed and exhausted and didn\u2019t feel right in my own skin. Something was wrong but time and time again I was basically given the shrug of the shoulder and told: \u201cWelcome to motherhood.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\nI started running and even though it caused me so much pain it was my outlet. It was my quiet time where the only thing I could hear was my breath or my music of choice. I was still battling with my low iron levels and they just kept upping my dose of antidepressant. Due to the dose of my antidepressants, I could no longer have an orgasm and that didn\u2019t help our already not so great sex life. I share this with you because if you are dealing with this as well I don’t want you to think you’re alone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
After C-Section – Obstetrician appointment<\/h2>\n\n\n\n I went to an Obstetrician when we first moved back to the States and he made it sound like such an easy fix. He could perform ablation and I would never again have a period. In my situation, this sounded beautiful and like the perfect choice. No more doubling up on super tampons and pads or packing extra clothes. Everything was great for about six months after the procedure, and then I got my period back. I was so frustrated and then the problems came back full force. My next answer from my health care professionals was a hysterectomy. The first time I heard that word I cried. That was so scary to me. I was in my early 30\u2019s and a hysterectomy is the answer?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hysterectomy… at 30?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n For three years after that first day, I was told I would need a hysterectomy I went to doctor after doctor. I changed my diet, I went to another women’s health physio, I tried lots of alternative therapies and remedies because I was desperate to fight back against my own body and determined to win! My uterus had other plans and gave me hell the entire time. At one point she started growing, as in getting bigger, and again my answer was a hysterectomy. I had a D&C to try and clean things up and to get a biopsy to see if everything was ok. The biopsy was never taken because I had so much scar tissue they couldn’t get past my cervix. I’m no doctor but that fact that my uterus was growing scared me a lot!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Once again I was left with feeling like we didn\u2019t get to the root of the problem and I found myself right back at square one. In pain, depressed and not feeling like myself. This is not how motherhood should look or feel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I wanted something to blame for all of this and I started really wishing I would never have had my C Sections. Irritated and let down by my own body for not doing its job and being able to deliver my babies vaginally. I regretted having the ablation and was frustrated with a lot of the decisions I had made.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I did end up having a hysterectomy and you can read all about it in this blog. It was incredibly hard to make that choice and do what was best for my body. I really believe that surgery should be the last option – and for me, it was mine. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
MUTU Mama story from Ashley, Military Wife and Mum shares her After C-Section story. “I will never forget being rolled back to the operating room in that German hospital after being in labour all day. One nurse was trying to get me to drink something from a brown bottle and the other was trying to […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1665,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"blog-single.php","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,20,27,17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1696","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-c-section","category-mental-health","category-post-birth-recovery","category-stories"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
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